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Old Jan 07, 2013, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted by skeksi View Post
I don't know exactly what made my abuser so damaged he had to hurt me--T and I have some theories, but ultimately it doesn't matter. The point is he felt out of control and helpless and tried to get out of it by dominating me.
He was most likely abused. Some abused people feel the only way to not be a victim anymore is to be the perpetrator.
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