thanks all. I cant say on each and every "count" he is unrepentent. But i know the physical abuse and emotional abuse, he argues with me about being right about. He believes you have to earn love. He thinks my brothers lied about him trying to strangle him. This is a recent conversation.

I went to a church that taught forgiveness allot. And i've never thought that I didnt forgive him. But I just hate the fact that he has no struggles. I hate that he has no regret. Is that bitterness??? If so... I don't know how to get rid of it.