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Jan 07, 2013, 03:32 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: pa
Posts: 192
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr. Venomous
I don't think being around female relatives helps a man feel comfortable around women. In fact, I would think that a strong female presence in a man's life would cause him to be more sensitive than other men, consequently making him less attractive to women, and thereby making him less comfortable around women. Women seem more attracted to the 'macho' men.
At least I think that is what happened to me. Since I have never had a healthy relationship with another male (ex. dad, uncle, etc.) I've become even more uncomfortable around men than women. I have an older sister, several female cousins, a mom, and if I factor in all the professional women that have surrounded me (ex. social workers, teachers, special education coordinators, speech therapists, therapists, etc.) I have always had a significant female presence in my life.
I am more sensitive and emotional than a lot of women, and since women seem to prefer the macho or bad guy mentality, I am frequently rejected, and that makes me uncomfortable around women.
I don't know. Maybe I am talking nonsense. I think I will be lonely forever 
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well man looks like we are in the same boat with the sensitivity part. I don't know why but im a sensitive man but I am also a tough guy and helplessly romantic. but like I said I always get friendzoned and have to listen to the girls as they complain about being treated right when I try to make them feel special everyday. but I have planned my life alone I sit at the dinner table and eat alone while my parents eat in the livin room. it hurt eating alone at first but I got used to it after awhile
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