PlatinumH

I am so sorry to hear about this. I am not sure what advise I would have for you, but it sounds like she will need more care than you could provide by yourself, especially since you work. It is amazing the number of family members who turn the blind eye to abuse, I'm sorry you feel alone in your support for her. Maybe her doctor could give you some advice on what can be done for her.

I'll be thinking about you