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Jan 08, 2013, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted by joseph_anthony
Don't allow yourself to be fooled by society's perception of the wealthy people. Being rich may solve some of your most basic needs by facilitating your ability to achieve them, but on the whole the person you truly are today wouldn't be totally different at all.
I am really not comfortable around girls at all. It is very difficult for me to go up to them and strike up conversation, like you see in the movies and on TV and stuff, I'm also told I'm not bad looking at all, I just don't know what to say. I can't talk to girls at bars or stuff, I mostly just chat with my friend and drink.
I don't understand why girls go after the stupid cocky idiots that act like their all that and will just end up treating her terrible?
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I didn't mean that money would solve everything wrong in my life (it wouldn't) but that it would solve the issues I have with women, i.e., not being shot down immediately each time.
Although I am told I am an incredible person, that means absolutely nothing when it comes to first impressions with women, because all they see is outside of me, not the inside, and they don't care what I am like if my exterior is not initially attractive.
I have neither looks nor wealth and I struggle in social situations, therefore it doesn't matter to women if I am the sweetest and kindest man alive, they don't want anything to do with me.
Having money I think would change this. That's what I meant. I would be able to have a fighting chance to develop a relationship with a woman if I was rich.
I can't strike conversations with women either. I don't know what to say, what is an appropriate topic for conversation, or anything. As for looks, I have issues in that department, because I have a skin disorder that affects my face. It's not uncommon for large sections of my face to swell up in these puss-filled lumps that I have been struggling with for 8 or 9 years. My sister recommended injections to the face to reduce the swelling, and I might check that out.
So I walk up to a woman, fail to start an appropriate conversation and seem awkward, have swollen infections on my face, and am broke. You can imagine how many women fall for me, right? And people don't understand why I stay in my office all day away from everyone else?
And I empathize with that frustration! Women always seem attracted to the "dangerous" men that turn out to be terrible partners, and then complain that all men are idiots while continuously seeking out that same kind of man. It's a paradox: women say they want a nice man, but reject nice men in favor of the dangerous, sexy men, later to complain how horrible all men are. Furthermore, I have heard from other men that if a man is too nice, he'll be 'friend zoned.'
It makes me feel like I will be alone forever. I've lost no matter what I do  .
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