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Jan 08, 2013, 08:45 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: pa
Posts: 192
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Originally Posted by Mr. Venomous
I didn't mean that money would solve everything wrong in my life (it wouldn't) but that it would solve the issues I have with women, i.e., not being shot down immediately each time.
Although I am told I am an incredible person, that means absolutely nothing when it comes to first impressions with women, because all they see is outside of me, not the inside, and they don't care what I am like if my exterior is not initially attractive.
I have neither looks nor wealth and I struggle in social situations, therefore it doesn't matter to women if I am the sweetest and kindest man alive, they don't want anything to do with me.
Having money I think would change this. That's what I meant. I would be able to have a fighting chance to develop a relationship with a woman if I was rich.
I can't strike conversations with women either. I don't know what to say, what is an appropriate topic for conversation, or anything. As for looks, I have issues in that department, because I have a skin disorder that affects my face. It's not uncommon for large sections of my face to swell up in these puss-filled lumps that I have been struggling with for 8 or 9 years. My sister recommended injections to the face to reduce the swelling, and I might check that out.
So I walk up to a woman, fail to start an appropriate conversation and seem awkward, have swollen infections on my face, and am broke. You can imagine how many women fall for me, right? And people don't understand why I stay in my office all day away from everyone else?
And I empathize with that frustration! Women always seem attracted to the "dangerous" men that turn out to be terrible partners, and then complain that all men are idiots while continuously seeking out that same kind of man. It's a paradox: women say they want a nice man, but reject nice men in favor of the dangerous, sexy men, later to complain how horrible all men are. Furthermore, I have heard from other men that if a man is too nice, he'll be 'friend zoned.'
It makes me feel like I will be alone forever. I've lost no matter what I do  .
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this is where my theory comes into play....I have made up a theory over the past couple years from talking to the few girls I do talk to and listening to them complain....my theory is that girls like to be treated like dirt and walked all over and when a nice guy comes along and starts treating them right they push him to the friendzone to make them feel like crap and feel worthless because in reality they like to be treated like dirt and I also have a second theory that girls don't think their good enough for a nice a guy
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