so Last night, He stated that he is not going to go to counseling, because its a waste of his money. He is not happy about anything in his life. He is also to bread winner...and he stated that I make **** for money and that he cant work anymore because society is full of a bunch of *** holes and liars. and he said he is going to quit his job, and because I am so committed to OUR marriage that I need to figure out how to fix it. so being the person I am I was like well i guess I need to get a second job, and he was like yes that's exactly what you need to do. Mind You I own a small business, I own a hair salon with my In-Laws and I don't have time for a second job. also, he knew what I made as far as money goes before we got married and new what i wanted out of my career and its NOT a million dollar career. I hate to say it but i think my marriage is over unless i can bring back the man i met and married.