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Originally Posted by Needs Marital help
so Last night, He stated that he is not going to go to counseling, because its a waste of his money. He is not happy about anything in his life. He is also to bread winner...and he stated that I make **** for money and that he cant work anymore because society is full of a bunch of *** holes and liars. and he said he is going to quit his job, and because I am so committed to OUR marriage that I need to figure out how to fix it. so being the person I am I was like well i guess I need to get a second job, and he was like yes that's exactly what you need to do. Mind You I own a small business, I own a hair salon with my In-Laws and I don't have time for a second job. also, he knew what I made as far as money goes before we got married and new what i wanted out of my career and its NOT a million dollar career. I hate to say it but i think my marriage is over unless i can bring back the man i met and married. 
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I hadn't read this post when I answered your original one. he's an arrogant pig. I'm sorry but he's just spouting off crap left and right showing how self-righteous and arrogant he is. He feels you "owe it to him" since he makes oodles of money more than you and blah blah blah. yeah well if he's capable of working, there's no reason for him to quit except for throwing a dang tantrum 3 yr old style to make a point - of which I do not know. That's he's a man and deserves something - ugh.
Like I said if he's unwilling to get counseling, I'm afraid you might be right about your marriage unless you alone can get him to change. That's unlikely.
I'm so sorry for this. *hugs*