First of all no one here will ever be "sick" of your posts and your stories. It's your life, you need support and that's what we're here for.

I totally agree with Rose. In today's world having "proof" such as him being caught in the act doesn't even necessarily give you anything other than being able to confront him with it. And in this case like she said, you can't trust him now anyway, does it really matter if you have more proof?

As for the evidence, it's very very likely he's already cheating but unfortunately it's only evidence of looking at those sites and having porn. You know very well that the fact he hides a phone will al that stuff is, at the very least showing intent to do what you fear, cheat.

I wouldn't wait. At the very least, I would boot his *** or get out yourself if you have to, whether I think separation or more than that is necessary I can't give my opinion on but to me, it seems as if he's already not there for you. As much as you've already confronted him and he's talked about this, he seems to me to be enjoying his behavior too much to quit.