I think the key to feeling better is to find joy in being all alone. Until you can be comfortable with yourself and happy with yourself and your life you will not make a good partner for anyone.

A while back I lost a relationship with a woman that was the best friend I ever had. My whole world revolved around my kids and around her. It took me a long, long time to come to grips with losing her.

Like you, I hate being alone. But, I realized that I need this time alone to heal and become the best person that I can become. I know it hurts. I know the feeling of loneliness. Just try and keep busy and try not to place so much pressure on finding a partner. If you place so much pressure on yourself you are likely to make a wrong decision about relationships.

Take care of yourself first and the rest will follow.