Ive been down that far before so I can understand. Sometimes the pain is so much, you cant continue living the way you are cause its pure hell. I luckily survived my attempts. But as far as saying something the only thing I could think of is let her know your there for her and you can be here sholder if she needs it. I couldnt imagine loosing a child especially one that she was trying so hard to help. Once again ill be sending goood thoughts out.