I hate to be the barrer of bad news, and if it is said nicely it is in your best interest. I have to agree w/ S4. You do seem a little analytical and maybe even just a little defensive. It's like you expect the worst and are planning on the worst. I know how you feel though. If things never go right and you always screw up it is hard to go into any situation w/ a smile. Now that might just be me, and totally not you.

I kinda have to have things slap me in the face to see them, again I am assuming this about you, but I know that, it is this way for me. Take this statement for example:

"I can't stress enough that I am active in clubs, organizations, etc., and if nobody believes me I can PM you a list of them."

There is nothing wrong w/ that statement but you seem to be trying to hard and killing it w/ insecurity. That kinda makes step back and say whoa. There is nothing wrong w/ mom but a girl might not be see you as a catch if your hangin w/ your mom at the pet store buying trantualla's. People at stores are paid to be nice and make sales.

I don't mean to tick you off and I hope that is not what I've done. Don't take what I have said to the bank for I to am friendless, except older people. Why do I have so much more in common w/ them then folks my age. I have zero social life. I feel like people just don't want to have anything to do w/ me. I may should have very well kept my mouth shut and my thoughts to myself but I to feel like you and so that makes me feel like it might be ok to share my opinion w/ someone who is in the same position.

I will not say you'll find someone some day or the right person is out there and you'll meet them eventually because that's what people tell me and it is so annoying, because some day could be when I'm 99. I don't have that long. Throw me a bone. I'd rather hear honesty. Even if it is mean, your hopeless or no wonder. I'd rather know. You are not hopeless or anything though.