I can't see a therapist, either.

I was date-r***ed in 2007 by a fellow patient during psych treatment. No one believed me or tried to separate us and he kept following me around the hospital.

I don't have the kind of money for sa therapy and all the mental health clinics are closed down here because of budget problems.

But you are talking on here, and so am I and that is a good kind of help, too.

You...did...not...deserve...what...he...did...to...you...*and*...I...did...not...deserve...what...my...former...bf...did...to...me...either.

this is not love. Our bf's did not love us. It's hurting, not love.

I am sorry this happened and I hope you can eventually realize that this is not what happens in a healthy relationship!

He was guilty, you were not. You were innocent.

Keep talking about it; break the silence.

We care!

Carol