Rhapsody I just asked,cause those were past posts,just thought something new came up since then,alright?
I think if this person just isn't going to follow a program, it would be best to limit any time spent around him, cause of an unpredictable change he may be going through.
Just a thought.
Sorry for the mix up, I no longer have any answers to this question, that haven't been offered already.

I wish you luck with this,take care now.
DE