That explains so much. It is not your fault then. It is not a character flaw or anything. I'm sure you know ashurgers has alot to do w/ social aspects of things. Standing to close, not making eye contact, info given does not matter. Ex A girl says I have a bf, and you say that's ok we can just hang out and be friends.

What if you did have a girl friend and on any given night she was hanging out with another guy. Would that make you angry of at least have questions/concerns.

My son has aspurgers and it doesn't always mean you are shy and quiet and an introvert. My son is so outgoing it aint funny. But he makes the mistake of talking about things he is interested in at the worst possible times. You could be talking about some one dieing and everyone could be sad and he just doesn't pick up on facial expressions and will try to blen in and talk about thing and say ....Did you know Paton Manning was drafted for what ever team , then he went to the who ever's, now he's w/ who ever. The subject at hand had nothing to do w/ football but he wants to participate in conversation and that is how his brain works.

I know that it is difficult having aspurgers. Social things are different for that individual. So it is not your fault. You are not a creep, or weird, or anything you may believe. I have to reherse what to say w/ my son. We drill. We go threw different ways of saying things and answers that are the same. Eventually he gets it. Once he gets it, it is there buddy, the info never leaves his brain. That helps so much to know that.

How much time have you spent on the aspurgurs forum here. It might be worth looking into.