Thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers! Just an update. My grandfather was arrested and put in jail for driving drunk and they took his car away. He was incredibly confused when we picked him up from the courthouse where he was being booked. It has been a crazy 24 hours. During all of this I had to get up every morning and go to work, and I have been deathly sick with this flu epidemic that has been traveling all over. It is a painful cough with chills so I haven't been back at the hospital.
The surgery is happening soon, but I don't know when. It is happening soon though.
Thanks again everyone for thinking of me