Alf, you said you drove by her place. How do you know she had a guy there sleeping with her?

You really do need to take care of yourself FIRST before you get into a relationship, Hon. They are difficult to begin with without bringing all kinds of baggage into them.

You sound like a pretty neat guy from the times I've talked with you. You owe it to yourself to take care of YOU.

Hang in there, ok?