I can certainly relate to not being too fond of Winter driving! I actually turn my radio up and sing as loud as I can while I'm driving in it. It sounds strange I know, but it does take some of the edge off my anxiety. No one wants to drive behind me when the roads are snow-covered. I move at a snails pace, then they pass me and all they can see is my singing like a fool LOL. As far as feeling guilty about doing things for yourself, remember that in helping yourself you also help those that care about you.