I'm so very glad I told my T. She handled it perfectly/professionally and after that session, is when our real work together finally began and I started making progress and a year later, we're winding down our sessions. I've been talking about terminating for a couple months now and recently she did admit "you don't need therapy anymore. I'd call this work more like self-improvement." It's a very individual thing, whether you tell your t or not; I admit I do tend to encourage people to tell because my experience went so well. But I also believe everyone needs to decide for themselves whether to tell or not. Each one of us knows our own t relationship better than anyone else - so really it's something you gotta pull from inside yourself whether to tell or not. Hope this makes sense just sharing how I feel about it.