Hey Jennifer. I've done this a few times now, only I did not send any of mine. I wonder if you write one letter, in which you write anything you want to say to your friend. Then write another in which you may take out stuff that may seem too harsh...It might work.

Just go with your heart. Sorry to sound like a cliche. However, when you sit down to write this letter, be sure you have some time and space for yourself. Unplug the phone, lock the door...whatever, so you know that noone will bother you.

I hope this helps!

--Dez