I want to get over my extreme social phobia of PC's chat rooms. I just can't enter a room of more than a few people if I don't know them. It's equavalant to walking in a crowded room and allowing people to talk behind your back and laugh at you. But at the same time...I feel alone and want the company and I feel like I'm almost blaming them for leaving me alone and excluding me when it's all me!! No feedback required, obviously, but any thoughts, ideas would be welcome....