Hi my name is julian and i have recently gotten a new girlfriend but there are a few problems. We started talking three months ago and at that time she had a boyfriend. During that time we talked everyday through text through phone call and sometimes we hang out. Before we knew it we had fallen in love with each other. She has been stressed out by her boyfriend and he wasnt making things better in her life, at least thats what she told me which I could clearly see. Eventually we weere so much in love we decided to have sex multiple times. EVen though afterwards we both felt bad but we knew what we were doing and we were in love. But she was afraid that she was hurting because she was still with him and I told her the truth that it did hurt to love someone so much and to have them being in the arms of someone else. But I told her dont base her happiness or her descion off of my feelings. I never gave her a ultimatum or anything like that. I also told her whatever she decided I will stand behind her no matter what and always be there for her. ABout a week ago she finally broke up with him. And she was so happy. And so was I. But the problem is we both are in college but we go to seperate schools and she see her ex all the time everyday. He is in most of her classes and most of her extra activities. Last night we had a big argument about who she truly wants cause she has limited restrictions with me and can barley see me like that. Where with him she can see him everyday. Also she claims she loves him but shes not in love with him like she is in love with me but yet at school they still talk and he keep telling her she broke his heart and stuff like that. And I see its making her feel bad and second guessing our relationship. I asked her if she rather get back with him and she said she dosent know. Bascially every questiion I aske was that same answer. I believe he is saying this stuff to make her feel really bad and make her get back with him. She says she is in love with and Im in love with her. I told her if we are truly in love then she wouldnt let him come between us. ANd I also told her to always be honest and truthful with me. Its not like shes lying to me but she barely tells me whats on her mind. And last night it all came out finally and it hurt more than ever. Then to top it off I told her if anything happens with him and her the same way it happened with me I would want her to tell me first before anything happens. Thats fair right? Not in her eyes. She then proceeds to tell me that she didnt tell him bout us and what was going on and she feels like why should she tellmeif it happens. And I told her that I am not him I am a different person and if you love me so much you would be honest and trufthful about things like this. And before this she promised to always behonest with meand now shes breaking that promise. Honestly idk what to do or what to say. I figure I just continue the relationship the best way we possibly can and whatever happens happens. But I dont want her to get back with him or anything like that soplease tell me what should I do and what should I say. I know this is long but thank you for taking the time to listen to my worries and my plea for help and advice I truly need this.