I always assumed T remembered stuff until she didn't I remember how surprised we both were when she called my husband "Steve" and we both asked simultaneous, "Who's Steve?" She didn't know where she came up with that name, just assumed it must have been another client's husband's name. I'd seen her for 8-9 years the second time around and she lost a check then found it and ended up having to write me a check (the whole bank cancelling the check and she wanting to pay the fee since she had lost it) and made it out to my maiden name she'd known me as 20+ years previously.