I cannot edit on the phone so instead a clarification: for the earlier guy, it was OK if I also wanted to be with the subsequent guy. The subsequent guy who later on became my first husband, insisted that I stay with him exclusively. I obeyed him. I was recently diagnosed with having Dependent Personality and Self Defeating Personality traits, and, in hindsight, that is why I obeyed. If I could go back I would assert my rights to like them both until and unless I personally would feel a need to belong a hundred percent to either one. Understand the difference between OBEYING someone's will and personally feeling the need? That is why you are right to not impose your will on her. Do not even push for honesty but just stay in the moment and enjoy her texts, your time together etc. Let her associate you with enjoyment and freedom rather than demands. And she will then naturally be honest with you, unprompted.

Good luck!