Hi swimmer,
How are you feeling now? Betrayed, angry, confused? I would be. I remember one time, a little different, but same issues, my wife took a trip to Florida alone. Told me she was going to see her sister. Left our son with me. I called her sister to talk, but sis says, she's not here right now, she took Adam (our son) to the park. Oh really? I'll have her call she says. Ok says me. Well, it didnt take long, I found out she was really in CA w/some "freinds" there. What kind of freinds I wonder, that you need to lie about what state you are in to see them? Anyway, not to get into my story, but, I can imagine how you feel. I spent a few days in the fetal position on my living room floor. What are you thinking of doing next?

"This too shall pass...."