I don't know why I didn't think of the Nanny.. Bf definately needs to see that! I already gave the Dr.Phil quote.." overindulgance is the worst kind of child abuse".

Did I mention that these kids are being raised by their wealthy grandma?That only adds fuel to the fire... they are spoiled in that way too..

I agree 100% Froggie!!! And I am in love with your little frog.... I collect frogs.. not living ones , I only watch them.

Thanks you guys.. I feel better.. i am pretty much alone in this battle... the boy is going to daycare half a day and he has no friends. he hates going... seems like I shouldn't be the only person noticing whats happpening.

This child has so much anger too that it bothers me.. he hits other children twice his age just for not playing with him.. and I mean children at a public park.. he doesn't know them.

Its like my bf and his ex... the grandparents.. feel guilty that their own son is on drugs and unable to be a parent so they are trying to make it up to the kids...by letting them have everything.. even their own way.

And to answer your question Froggie.. He has seen me be slapped by the boy. .and he "talked" to the boy about it.... but no punishing. I already stopped babysitting them alone because of the way I was being treated.. I just can't tolerate it.

Thanks again!! Faith