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Old Jan 13, 2013, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by healed84 View Post
I feel so selfish because both of the things that T encourages me to explore will have a direct effect on my family, on my marriage, on everyone around me.
But what is to say that effect will be negative? Think of it like Matthew 5:15?

"No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house."

Your exploring might shed more light for other people to see by.
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