Well, the (healthy)monks, nuns, and priests have something going for them that is missing in everyday life for people placing no religious emphasis in their lives.

I was married--happpily--; my husband died; have no desire to marry again, am content--big difference between happiness and contentment--and enjoy my grandchildren and their beauty.

It's all different and can change overnight for anyone. Enjoy it while we
can, please.

Lol. Your thread title is so funny; excuse, me please. Lol