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Originally Posted by lido78
It's hard to watch someone continually bang their head against a wall and then turn to you and ask you why you think they have a headache.
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What a good metaphor, Lido!
Since you are on this site, I assume you might have had a T in your life or even seeing one now. T's have different style - some give suggestions, some just listen waiting for you to come up with suggestions for yourself. Likewise, friends, girlfriends etc. might try to come up with helpful, productive suggestions, or alternatively might choose to just listen and be there. You have tried it one way, now try the other way. Just nod with understanding. And very cool that you have a younger bf.