Randy is totally nice and very excited and enthusiastic about me. We held hands. For a bit and kissed for a bit, all sweet and nice. I told him that I am happy that he found me. Heagreed. I plan to take it to the bedroom in several weeks. Not immediately for several reasons. First, I want to keep him guessing and build up suspence, tension, anticipation etc. For him. Second, I need to clean the apartment, with Carmens help. Third, it is the first time I am cool, rational, and even calculating a bi with respect to a romantic relationship, almost project~managing it, first ascertaining that he is a good fit for me and then only getting closer. And objectively, he is a great fit, he even has experience living with a woman who before him lived with an abusive man, and helping her recover.

In the meantime, G. has just landed and wants to see me tomorrow jet lag notwithstanding, which is OK, although I initially planned to invite her after Carmen comes but sure, he has already been to my messy place.plus I miss him and look forward to seeing him.

And,as an icing on the cake, Randy is polyamorous, so he won't demand, request, or expect any sacrifices on my part, and everything will be drama free.