I can definitely relate s4. A lot of it is subtle for me too. Mostly like acting the way I think they want me too...which is crazy because it is all mind reading you know? haha. I never knew it was that weird until my bf pointed out that most people don't think based on how others think they think.
And psh...mohawks are rad!
I had a mohawk when I was 15...and I am a girl...