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Originally Posted by granite1
it sounds like it is just time to find a new T .if you cant trust this T any more it just seems like you are torturing yourself by staying with him it seems you are spending years trying to fix this with him instead of working on your reasons for being in T .i cant see how that is helping. having a rupture once in a while to work through is one thing but you have been dealing with this for well over a year now .i cant see how it is helping you deal with your life out side of your T
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I SO hear you granite. And it gets super confusing and tangled up because some of what I am dealing with in T is SO much like the crap I dealt with as a child that I keep thinking that maybe working through THIS will help me heal from THAT.
And we had 4 years of history before this happened, so that gets all mixed up in it too.
Weirdly, I realized today that the entire thing started exactly a year ago today. Exactly.
Strange timing. Blah. T in 90 minutes
