I agree with BlueInanna, of course, but I am sorry to see you suffering from Tegretol, wildchild; I have not been on Tegretol myself but I have been offered it as an alternative to another drug precisely because that other drug was causing sexual side effects, and looking into Tegretol I did not find warnings that it may cause sexual side effects itself. But again we are all different and react to medications differently and you probably just did not draw a lucky card with your Tegretol.