It's the only thing that makes it bearable. I'm so grateful there are people here who can articulate what I feel. I can't put words to it, but I recognize it when I read it. I'm sorry I sound huffy to people - I've heard that complaint all my life. I wish people could ignore the huff and answer the question! It's usually more for me than for them - I have the same issue. Oh hwell! I'll keep trying to de-huffIfy.