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Old Jan 14, 2013, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by nightsky View Post
I realized that there is really no way, other than a HUGE leap of faith, that I'll ever REALLY be able to trust my T again. I know even without that deep level of trust, he could still help me, just in a slightly different way. We don't need to be so so so connected for him to listen to my story and my day to day struggles and help guide and support me.
I would find it very hard to be with my T if we had a "lesser" relationship than we had before. Each time we met would remind me of how we used to be and it would be sad and make it difficult to work on day to day struggles. It would be easier for me to work on day to day struggles with someone else than to keep being reminded of the relationship that my T and I used to have.

Good luck at your meeting.
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