Hi everyone. I have had an issue come up this weekend and it is not the first time it's came up. My H doesn't like me talking to people on the computer. PC is the only site I network on. I don't have a face book. I don't twitter and do all that other stuff. But he doesn't like me using the computer to talk to people. He eoesn't understand why I choose the computer over real people, no offence yall are real don't worry. I have tried to explain it is easier it can be done from home, I don't have to invest gas to go visit or go out to get a bite to eat. I can't cultivate a live friendship because I have no money and there is not enough money to go around to afford that normal convience of life.

My H hates technology. He does no social networking. He asked me how would you feel if I (he) had a face book account and was talking to people. I told him fine. If that's how you want to spend your time go for it. That made him more angry. HE wanted to know if I felt the need to help people why not help people at church, or out in our community. I am not liked. I'm not interesting. I'm not really sociable. I feel safe talking to people online.

Is it wrong to talk to people at PC if he doesn't want me to. I feel like he is controlling. I get fussed at if he comes home and finds me on the computer playing solitare. If he is glued to his phone I come and check my e-mail. That makes him mad. He can ignore me and it's ok. If he is watching football,and I'm board I'm in the wrong for using the computer. I try hard to not use the computer when he is home. I use it after he goes to sleep. He is fully aware of all my viewing habits. I have nothing to hide. I just showed him over the weekend this site and how harmless it is. He laughed at my name, and how pathetic it was that is how I feel the need to talk to people. He hates the computer. Being unemployed and have been for 15 yrs. He said repeatedly and laughed I don't know what you are gonna do w/ that computer blows, but I ain't buyin another one. What an ***. He hates anything to do w/ me I feel like. I don't know what he thinks will happen. I know he is insecure. He knows we have issues and fears I'll stray. He's not doing his job to help me be happy. He's helping to bring me down.

Am I wrong in continuing to talk to people at PC. If he doesn't want me talking to people am I being a bad wife talking to people on the computer.