Aww yeah it is rude, sounds like he isn't very computer savy either with the downloading and toolbars yikes!! Exactly why my kids are not allowed on my laptop.

Maybe she can find a different roomate? You guys have helped her out for a long time. And she can take some responsability for her own arrangements. I know she has some problems but she sounds capable enough to figure it out too, and kinda sounds like she wants to. Sucks what tiny little amount of money she is recieving that makes it so difficult to make ends meet. It's the same here. But since she qualifies for disability is there like low rent or subsidized housing she could apply for. Not sure how that all works down there.

I think you are right tho, moving will set you free from your dad looming this over your head any longer and also keep him out of your business a bit. I think it's a good move. You know when my grandparents died they left my sisters and I a very large sum of money, but they entrusted my dad to disperse it to us. They did the same for my cousins who come from very well off families while we were the poor ones. My father also had money, he had a sucessful business going. He spent it all on who knows what since he was always manic and also had big addictions, sad since my sisters and I could have used it the most, maybe it would have been wiser to let my aunts handle ours also. But it's ok. Hard to miss something you never had, and somehow someway there would have been some sort of strings attached I think.

Freedom is worth all the money in the world.

Yes people can hack into your computer and acess your webcam. I put tape over mine too. Creepy.

I'll be sending all the positive energy that I can that you will qualify!! I really hope it works out. You know I tried using that power of attaction to get the place I have. I waited 6 years for this place and never heard anything, but within a month and half after using that attraction stuff I got a call. When I came to look at it there were two huge dragonflies left on the fences. Dragonflies have always represents my dreams coming to life. It seemed very cool to me. So keep on visualizing that calm blue ocean sanctuary in this place that you want.

Even if it turns out not to be "it" , keep focusing on what you do want, I really think it will show up!