So an update, he has decided to seek help. We have an appt. on wends to see a psychiatrist. However, last monday he came home early from work at 3 and not 6, and I could tell right off the bat that he was in a bad mood so i stayed outta his way. On wends the local sheriffs department came to my work looking for him because his work has not heard from him or seen him since monday. They then went to my house to talk to him. Then , when i got home and confronted him about it he said that he was not going back to work and that his job has made his life miserable, and feels that they have ruined his work-life for him and we will never be able to hold a normal job because of them. So, when I asked if he was ever going to find another job his response was no, because he cant hold a normal job and he is not gonna be able to find a job that can pay our bills. He thinks that I should get a second job...I run a salon as stated in my previous post that his parents and I own (they live out of state). He mainly wants to seek psychiatric help because he thinks that they will sign off on disability for him NOT to work! He states that he cant work anymore, but yet when i get home from work there is a pile of dirty dishes in sink, trash has not been taken out, and he was played XBOX ALL DAY! then i come home we eat dinner that I have cooked we watch tv for a few then he goes back to the basement to his XBOX. I think....If you cant concentrate to work then how can you concentrate enough to strategies to play xbox all day long. I would love some advice to bring up to the doc. when we go on wends or talk to someone who has been down this path...any and ALL help would be great. I still love him dearly, but Im not sure how much more of this i can deal with.