It's my list too. But I'm working on it. Plus I think I'm older than you, so that closes even more doors. But I'm working on the man door - I signed up for okcupid. I haven't posted my picture or responded to anyone, but I have answered a hundred questions or so, and at least it's fun to mentally reject men of the "opposite" political party or anything else that might be important to you. Hey I'll take my ego boosts where I can get them.