My ex-partner and co-parent of our autistic child is in a relationship with someone else now. This other person is also married. Is it ever a good idea to inform the unknowing spouse of the affair? (even anonymously) This situation is much more complicated than you can imagine.
First of all my ex-partner, the mother of my son lives in the same house with me for the betterment of our child. My ex-partner's new love interest is a woman who is married to a woman. It get's more complicated. My ex-partner is a MFT who was hired by this couple to help with their martial problems. So, I must live in the face of this love affair that for professional and ethical reasons must be kept a secret. Do I just let this relationship go on because it is really none of my business or do I allow enough info out so the unknowing wife has an idea of what is going on? On top of all this, I want my ex-partner back. I want the family back together. Part of me thinks that creating more drama will only make everything worse. Maybe I should just let it go and continue to work on my issues and the choices I made that got me into this predicament. Help. I need some opinions and advice.