Hankster thank you so much, that was such a nice thing to say. I am trying. It's really hard some days. I can say my H has improved by leaps and bounds. But he has miles to go. The T often see's my anguish and I tell her he has improved so much, now he is managable and tolerable. She wants to know is living this way forever acceptable. It is not, but if these changes have come about and made things better how many more changes will come about.

Sometimes (most of the time) I think to my self he's not doing this on purpose, poor guy he's just stupid.