I can totally relate I would do really great then someone would get under my skin. I would build it up and build it up until I would quit. I think your husband has to understand that without meds and therapy it may be hard for you to hold down a full time job. I would try to make that priority one. I don't know much about working from home but you should should look into it. Don't feel bad there are other people out there struggling with the same thing.
Sorry missed that last post I can always get somewhere maybe that is a depression issue? I really had trouble getting motivated when I was depressed.