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Originally Posted by Jamielow
i've been told bpd is a disorder that can be cured but it takes a long time . How the out look for me i'm 47 everything went wrong years ago and i've dealt with them by irrupting in to rage and violence new that wasn't the way so now being older i seem to have hide from meeting of trusting people then the dx 2yrs ago pee d it wasn't dealt with in my youth hope i don't become a angry old man i just want love and to see my lovely children who i miss every second of the day not seen them in 10 months gutted this to deal with and seeing my children sorry for the rant pee's me off what i've done now they don't want me time will heal but i miss them
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I'm sorry for your loss - that you haven't seen your kids in so long. I feel for you, I have 2 boys living with me and a daughter I've not seen in years (20 yr old) I know this has got to be really hard on you.
As for a cure - I dont' know if "cure" is a good word. Maybe it is but I'm not sure. I know that there is a lot of good therapy and meds that can help you, but I'm just not sure if bpd is something that goes away. I think it's more we learn to cope and deal with our disorder and even control it better. The outcome is still a good one though. I just think for me, expecting it to actually go away is just not realistic.
Seek out help, check out the forums there's a ton of supportive people here and a lot of information for you. you can get better and you will, if you want to. Kids are resilient, they can forgive even faster than adults can... hang onto that hope.
~S4