After the anger subsides and you've moved on, do you do any damage-repair with those left hurting? Or are they supposed to understand that's the way you are? I'm asking because I have BPD acquaintances, & I always think they've moved on & forgotten/forgiven--they act that way ... but I sure wish they'd spell it out, since it's a work situation and if I hang on to it could get baaad.
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