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Originally Posted by Roadie
After the anger subsides and you've moved on, do you do any damage-repair with those left hurting? Or are they supposed to understand that's the way you are? I'm asking because I have BPD acquaintances, & I always think they've moved on & forgotten/forgiven--they act that way ... but I sure wish they'd spell it out, since it's a work situation and if I hang on to it could get baaad.
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I think it depends on how far and heated it got.
I know for me the closer the people to me the nastier my mouth is.
How ever this applies to more family members.
My friends I just cut right off.
The next day I can never be more sorry. And it does take time. They do slowly forgive me. Soaking in my own guilt and shame.
Not really sure I've answered your question!! Sorry of it was no help what's so ever.