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Originally Posted by Roadie
After the anger subsides and you've moved on, do you do any damage-repair with those left hurting? Or are they supposed to understand that's the way you are? I'm asking because I have BPD acquaintances, & I always think they've moved on & forgotten/forgiven--they act that way ... but I sure wish they'd spell it out, since it's a work situation and if I hang on to it could get baaad.
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unfortunately that's a downfall of mine more often than not. i've been accused of acting like nothing happened after the anger subsides and if I dont' remain conscious of my actions it can cause further hurting and frustration in my loved ones. it is something that I need to be aware of at all times and make an effort to do.