I think after you've been married for years, the communication stops, and we just don't know our mates anymore. We take each other for granted. Each person seems to go their own way, and do their own thing, and communication goes out the window.

I hope in therapy you learn how to talk to each other again. Then perhaps you'll learn WHO your husband is. You may be surprised and fall in love with him all over again. LOL

Don't feel bad. This happens to couples ALL the time. They just don't talk anymore. Too bad. But I'm so glad you're in therapy -- you're very smart to be doing that!!! Keep us posted, Shlump. And God bless! Hugs, Lee