you need a licence to own a dog, drive a car and even to go fishing, but any axxhole can have kids!parental love should be unconditional, but unfortunately as many on this site know many parents are flawed in this area.
my real dad left because i was a girl and mothers second husband (i refuse to call him anything other than this or the axxhole!) abused me in every sense of the wordfor over 9 years!
some parents are so concerned aboth their own feelings and looks that they forget their kids have feelings too!
for me knowing they never loved me made it easier to dismiss any thoughts around loving them. i despise them both and really do not care if they know that or not.
believe me life is too short to be worrying over those who don't care about you, concentrate on those who make you feel good