No cheating. we did argue a lot. mostly little things, again I have mood swings and this plays into it. I lived with her for the past year and half. My daughter lived with us for about 8 or 9 months and the end of this. My daughter was 15 almost 16 when she moved in. my ex after a few months brought to my attention that my daughter was being very disrespectful most of the time and my daughter was disrespectful towards her kids as well. this did not settle well for my ex. I had so much on my plate with work, my daughter, my ex wife, my son, and just people that needed me. I was very stressed out and did not handle things the way I should have. I felt distant from my ex and of course knowing and seeing all this now I can understand. I guess I never really commuicated correctly and felt like she did not understand. I'm sure she did, she just wanted me to handle things better. There were also several times when I drank to much and would spoil the night or mood due to my mood swings. Im really nit sure why I do that. We both are very busy at work and at home. She also started a new job and that job was very stressful for her. We love each other very much and I know she does miss me. No physical violence either in any shape or form. She has some problems as well, she has some medical problems, she does not sleep very well, she gets stressed out very quick, she has rheumatoid arthritus, minor thyroid issues, and is having some mood swings as well. She thought the mood swings may be caused by some hormone issues. She cant really take birth control pill because it changes her personality for some reason. She was on this birth control that was inside her and she was always feeling sad at times and even crying for no reason. So yes she does have some medical problems. She is very stubborn and does not want to be placed on medication because she thinks she is to young for that. So she tries other things to help with this. I'm just wondering if she really needs time for herself and thinks I need time for myself. I hoping she wants to see if I can really be a different person. I have been getting a lot of help and I've had plenty of alone time to really think about things and the things I need to correct. I still have a lot of personal things at her house, mainly tools and outdoor stuff. These items are all in her garage. I still have personal mail that goes to her house and I'll pick it up from time to time. She has not canceled my gym membership after three months, and she stills pay for it. It's really difficult to explain everything through forum text. I know she is still angry, upset, or just confused. I know she is not seeing or talking to another man and really does not have interest doing so. I'm still very close to her family, and again her parents do live behind her and I have gone over to hang out with her dad. He does like me coming over. My ex knows I go there. I would think if she really wanted nothing to do with me and really felt there was no reconsiliation in the future and would not be allowed to do these things and she would make me get my stuff out of her house and probably would not want me hanging out with her cousins and her dad. Hell I even play an online game still with her mom. My ex is very close with her all family. Hope this helps as far as more info. If you have some advise or feelings about this please let me know. Thank you...