yeah.. I hate it turned out like this for ya hun.. and the thing is.. she must really be needy to blow off a friend for a man...I agree with you that its lame.. but some women just can't be without a man.Her loss.. a friend in you..

I hope the job goes well enuf to get you by until something does come up that is your passion... don't give up on that.. just give it time...Hang in there!